The choices open to us are numerous indeed and the decision of which one we choose is our sovereignty; no one else’s. So within this three ways of being; getting, having and giving, the choices open to us are:

Choice 1: Getting more yet feeling having less, thus giving out less
Choice 2: Getting more yet feeling having less, but yet giving out more nevertheless.
Choice 3: Getting more and feeling having more, but yet giving out less
Choice 4: Getting more and feeling having more and giving out more.
Choice 5: Getting less and feeling having less, thus giving out less
Choice 6: Getting less and feeling having less, but yet giving out more nevertheless
Choice 7: Getting less yet feeling having more, but yet giving out less.
Choice 8: Getting less yet feeling having more and giving out more.

I call:
Choice 1: being ungrateful and selfish
Choice 2: (is this even possible?)
Choice 3: selfish
Choice 4: grateful and unselfish
Choice 5: entitled, justifies and vengeful
Choice 6: unselfish
Choice 7: grateful and selfish? (is this even possible?)
Choice 8: grateful and unselfish

Based on these thoughts, they point to me that greatfulness (the feeling of having more) is what determines my giving.